Mediation Skills for Managers Training Course

Duration 5 days 10 modules · 33 contact hours
Level Intermediate Certificate on completion
Who attends Line Managers, Team Leaders and others
Fee from USD 1,100 KSh 95,000 for Kenyan organisations
Where 52 cities + online See dates by city
Next start 16 Nov 2026 Course code SD-LD-270

Before you join: Participants should have experience managing people, projects or cross-functional working relationships and should be comfortable conducting routine performance and feedback conversations.

Dates & prices

Two start dates a month in every city, and live online on weekdays or weekends. Fees are per participant; classroom fees include tuition, materials, lunch and refreshments, and the certificate.

Suggest a date or city

Showing the next six months. Later dates, other cities and private deliveries for your team are available on request.

Course overview

Managers are frequently expected to address disputes before they affect performance, retention, service delivery or employee relations. Yet a difficult conversation can become more entrenched when a manager takes sides, moves too quickly to a solution, or fails to recognise concerns that require HR, safeguarding or formal investigation. Effective workplace mediation requires a structured process that gives people a fair hearing while maintaining clear boundaries around the manager's authority and responsibilities.

This course equips managers to prepare and facilitate workplace mediation conversations between colleagues, team members or internal stakeholders. Participants learn to assess whether mediation is appropriate; conduct pre-mediation meetings; establish ground rules; listen for interests behind stated positions; reframe blame; manage emotion, power differences and impasse; and draft workable agreements. The course uses recognised methods including principled negotiation, BATNA analysis, Nonviolent Communication and the Thomas-Kilmann conflict mode framework.

Participants work through realistic cases involving performance tensions, cross-functional delivery disputes, hybrid-team misunderstandings, workload disagreements and relationship breakdowns. Short instructor briefings are combined with case analysis, group work, structured simulations and feedback. Each participant leaves with a manager mediation plan, preparation templates, conversation scripts, an agreement template and clear referral criteria for issues that should not be mediated informally. The five-day course provides approximately 32.5 contact hours and includes a certificate of completion.

It is particularly suitable for managers who need to address conflict directly while preserving working relationships, operational accountability and fair process.

What you will be able to do

  • Assess whether workplace disputes are suitable for informal manager-led mediation or formal referral
  • Prepare pre-mediation meetings using intake questions, stakeholder mapping and risk screening
  • Facilitate mediation openings that establish neutrality, consent, confidentiality limits and ground rules
  • Use active listening, reframing and circular questioning to move parties beyond blame
  • Apply principled negotiation, BATNA analysis and objective criteria to generate workable options
  • Manage emotional escalation, power imbalances, difficult behaviour and mediation impasse
  • Draft SMART mediation agreements with owners, deadlines, contingencies and review arrangements
  • Create a manager mediation plan with referral pathways and follow-up actions

Benefits of attending

For you

  • Handle difficult workplace conversations with a repeatable mediation structure
  • Reduce anxiety when colleagues become defensive, emotional or accusatory
  • Build credibility as a fair manager who listens without avoiding decisions
  • Produce clearer agreements that prevent repeated disputes and mixed expectations
  • Recognise when to stop informal intervention and refer a matter appropriately

For your organisation

  • Resolve lower-level disputes before they become formal grievances or employee relations cases
  • Reduce productivity losses caused by unresolved team tension and repeated escalation
  • Improve accountability through documented actions, owners and follow-up dates
  • Create more consistent manager responses to conflict across departments
  • Protect staff welfare by identifying matters requiring HR, safeguarding or investigation

Course modules

10 modules over 5 days

Participants can distinguish conflicts suitable for manager-led mediation from matters requiring formal referral.

  • Conflict sources mapped through task, relationship, process and values categories
  • Thomas-Kilmann modes interpreted without treating scores as fixed labels
  • Manager, mediator and investigator roles separated before intervention begins
  • Voluntary participation, informed consent and self-determination in workplace mediation
  • Confidentiality limits explained for safety, misconduct and legal reporting
  • Conflict escalation patterns identified using Glasl's nine-stage model
  • Referral thresholds for grievances, discrimination, harassment and safeguarding concerns

Participants can prepare a mediation process using structured intake, risk screening and agenda design.

  • Separate pre-mediation meetings establish readiness, issues and decision authority
  • Opening questions surface each party's account, concerns and desired outcomes
  • Stakeholder mapping identifies affected colleagues, sponsors and absent interests
  • Risk screening assesses retaliation, power imbalance, distress and immediate safety
  • Meeting agreements define attendance, confidentiality, breaks and communication channels
  • Neutral venue, seating and online platform arrangements reduce avoidable friction
  • Agenda design converts positions into discussable issues and decision points

Participants can open a mediation meeting with a credible, fair and clearly bounded process.

  • Opening statements establish purpose, neutrality, ground rules and participant control
  • Ground rules address interruptions, threats, recording, respectful language and breaks
  • Process maps clarify joint sessions, caucuses and agreement-making stages
  • Impartiality demonstrated through balanced attention, language and procedural consistency
  • Authority boundaries stated when the manager also owns operational decisions
  • Psychological safety strengthened through predictable process and respectful turn-taking
  • Timeboxing keeps mediation focused without forcing premature settlement

Participants can use questioning and reframing techniques to convert blame into workable discussion.

  • Active listening combines attending, paraphrasing, summarising and emotion labelling
  • Open, probing and circular questions reveal interactions and underlying concerns
  • Reframing converts blame statements into neutral, forward-looking discussion points
  • Looping checks accuracy before moving from narratives to negotiation
  • Strategic silence gives participants time to think, regulate and respond
  • Nonviolent Communication separates observations, feelings, needs and requests
  • Microaggressions and loaded language challenged without taking sides

Participants can help parties identify interests, test alternatives and build mutually acceptable options.

  • Positions distinguished from interests using the Harvard principled negotiation model
  • BATNA and WATNA analysis tests options against realistic alternatives
  • Objective criteria generate fair standards for workload, schedules and performance
  • Option generation separates brainstorming from evaluation and commitment
  • Shared interests identified alongside competing needs and non-negotiable constraints
  • Package proposals trade across issues rather than splitting every difference
  • Reality testing examines feasibility, authority, resources and unintended consequences

Participants can manage emotional intensity and power differences without deciding outcomes for either party.

  • Emotional regulation uses naming, normalising, pausing and paced breathing
  • Caucuses manage overwhelm, test proposals and restore constructive participation
  • Power imbalances assessed through status, expertise, dependency and communication confidence
  • Process adjustments protect voice without deciding outcomes for either party
  • Cultural assumptions checked through curiosity, clarification and behavioural specificity
  • Face-saving strategies preserve dignity while addressing harmful conduct
  • Trauma-informed responses prioritise choice, predictability, boundaries and appropriate referral

Participants can interrupt destructive behaviour and respond constructively when mediation stalls.

  • De-escalation sequence recognises triggers, lowers arousal and restores dialogue
  • Personal attacks interrupted using boundary statements and redirected questions
  • Defensiveness met with acknowledgement, specificity and responsibility-focused inquiry
  • Shuttle diplomacy carries proposals between parties during separate caucuses
  • Impasse diagnosis distinguishes missing information, mistrust, values and authority
  • Bracketing parks secondary disputes while preserving a return point
  • Suspension and adjournment decisions protect safety and allow further preparation

Participants can draft practical mediation agreements that support implementation and accountability.

  • Settlement terms specify actions, owners, dates, measures and review points
  • SMART commitments replace vague promises and disputed interpretations
  • Agreement language separates behavioural expectations from opinions about past events
  • Contingency clauses address missed commitments, changed conditions and escalation routes
  • Mutual gains recorded without promising outcomes outside participants' authority
  • Confidentiality provisions distinguish private discussions from operational communication needs
  • Follow-up meetings test implementation, repair setbacks and reinforce accountability

Participants can manage mediation boundaries in complex employee, operational and cross-functional cases.

  • Performance disputes separated from formal capability and disciplinary processes
  • Hybrid-team conflicts addressed through channel choice, response norms and meeting design
  • Cross-functional disputes framed around handoffs, priorities, service levels and dependencies
  • Union, employee-relations and HR consultation boundaries identified before mediation
  • Allegations of harassment, discrimination or violence routed through formal procedures
  • Multi-party mediation structures representation, speaking order and coalition risks
  • Organisational records limited to necessary process notes and agreed actions

Participants can create an individual plan for applying mediation methods in their management role.

  • Mediation case analysis integrates intake, process design, questioning and agreement drafting
  • Personal conflict triggers identified through reflective practice and feedback
  • Manager mediation plan sets referral criteria, preparation steps and follow-up
  • Conversation scripts prepared for invitations, openings, caucuses and closure
  • Escalation pathways mapped for unresolved disputes and formal case transfer
  • Peer consultation protocols support ethical decisions in difficult cases
  • Thirty-day application plan schedules first mediation opportunities and review

Exercises and examples are adapted to each cohort's sectors and roles.

What you take back to work

  1. Workplace mediation suitability checklist
  2. Pre-mediation intake and risk-screening template
  3. Mediation opening and ground-rules script
  4. Interest, BATNA and option-generation worksheet
  5. SMART mediation agreement template
  6. Manager mediation application plan

Who should attend

  • Line Managers — need to resolve team disputes before performance and morale decline
  • Team Leaders — handle day-to-day tensions between colleagues and shift members
  • Department Heads — address cross-team disagreements affecting priorities and delivery
  • Project Managers — manage conflict over scope, ownership, deadlines and resources
  • HR Business Partners — support managers handling informal employee relations concerns
  • Operations Managers — resolve recurring disputes that disrupt service, safety or productivity

Skills and tools covered

Workplace mediationConflict diagnosisActive listeningInterest-based negotiationDe-escalation techniquesAgreement drafting

Tools and standards

Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument, Glasl's Nine-Stage Conflict Escalation Model, Harvard Principled Negotiation, Nonviolent Communication

How the course runs

Training methodology

The course combines short instructor briefings with workplace cases, small-group analysis, structured mediation simulations and facilitated feedback. Participants prepare for disputes, conduct opening conversations, use caucuses, test options and draft agreements based on realistic management scenarios. Trainers introduce tools in stages, then provide repeated opportunities to apply them under time pressure. Individual reflection and application planning help participants connect the methods to current team, project and stakeholder relationships.

Requirements and prerequisites

Participants should have experience managing people, projects or cross-functional working relationships and should be comfortable conducting routine performance and feedback conversations. Familiarity with their organisation's HR, grievance, disciplinary and safeguarding procedures is useful. Participants should be willing to examine their own conflict responses and practise structured conversations. No prior mediation qualification, legal training, counselling background or formal dispute-resolution experience is required. This course does not train participants to investigate misconduct or make legal findings.

A typical training day

08:30 – 10:30First session
10:30 – 10:45Refreshment break
10:45 – 12:30Second session
12:30 – 13:30Lunch and networking
13:30 – 15:00Third session
15:00 – 15:15Refreshment break
15:15 – 16:30Workshop and daily review

Live online deliveries follow the same structure in East Africa Time, with shorter screen blocks and longer breaks.

What the fee includes

  • Instruction by a practitioner facilitator
  • Full course workbook and materials
  • Exercise files, templates and case studies
  • Refreshments and lunch on classroom deliveries
  • Certificate of completion
  • Post-course application plan

Frequently asked questions

Participants should have experience managing people, projects or working relationships where disagreements can affect delivery. No previous mediation qualification, legal training or counselling background is required.

Bring examples of non-confidential workplace disputes, recurring team tensions or stakeholder disagreements you want to handle better. You should not bring sensitive employee records, investigation files or identifiable case documentation.

The course is designed for line managers, team leaders, project managers, department heads and HR business partners. It is most useful for people expected to address conflict directly rather than immediately pass it to HR.

Negotiation training usually focuses on reaching an outcome for yourself or your organisation, while mediation requires impartial process management between other parties. Difficult conversations training builds direct communication skills; this course adds intake, process design, caucuses, impasse management and agreement drafting.

Participants can use the preparation, opening, questioning and agreement tools for team disputes, cross-functional tensions and recurring relationship problems. The course also clarifies when informal mediation should stop and a matter should be referred through formal channels.

The course runs from 08:30 to 16:30 each day, providing approximately 6.5 contact hours daily. Time is divided between instructor input, case analysis, group exercises, mediation simulations, feedback and individual application planning.

Questions about this course?

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